What it do readers?
I come to you this time, again from the phone, to talk about a big thing in my life.
It’s such a big thing cause I find my self having to find it ALOT!!
Living with my Girlfriend is a new task a new thing. Ask anyone out there if you go to live with someone new or! Go from living on your own to live with another it’s a world changer.
I lived on my own. Had my own rules. Did my own thing. I would leave the house messy cause no one was every going to come over. Dishes in the sink, clothes everywhere, and stacked up the trash. I didn’t clean unless someone was coming over for sure. Now don’t get me wrong I am a clean person. I love stuff neat. I just didn’t need it neat in my house cause at the time I only spent my time sleeping in my house. All the others times I was out and about. Hanging with buds, going to events, work, and etc. So, I never made the time.
Now, living with my GF it’s clean all the time no matter what. (My perspective) we fight over the place getting messy. On who’s doing the dishes, laundry, bathroom duties, making the bed, etc. All this stuff I didn’t want to do. Unless!!! I had guest over. But, with the GF it has to be nice always. And don’t get me wrong I love her. But, when I say we have fought like FOUGHT!! anyone that’s been in my boat knows what I’m talking about. So, no need to expand on detail here.
This leads to compromise. With our work schedules we both have talked it out and got a system down. We both understand we get tired and stuff happens. But, we got a system. Now!! This doesn’t mean we still don’t fight or argue. Just now we fight less and find the compromise in life to best work for the both of us.
Living with someone else, no matter if it’s a spouse, GF, BF, BFF, college mate, or even family. It’s a new and life change thing. And when you jump in Compromise is the word that will help make living together some how better.
Thanks for reading this far.
The up dates in my life.
- Christmas shopping sucks!!!
- Living paycheck to paycheck (who isn’t?)
- Car broke down but I got it fixed with families help
- Happy with my life
- Be Better
- Be You
- Be Positive